well guys i'm single now

Peanut

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the old lady left today and I don't miss her one damn bit .so it's just me 9 dogs and 6 goldfish and 7 catfish. that's about all I got to say about that. don't worry about posting i'm sorry because to me it's the best thing that's come along in a long time.she was way to controlling even the kids say i'l better off.
 
the old lady left today and I don't miss her one damn bit .so it's just me 9 dogs and 6 goldfish and 7 catfish. that's about all I got to say about that. don't worry about posting i'm sorry because to me it's the best thing that's come along in a long time.she was way to controlling even the kids say i'l better off.

Hey Peanut ....
You still got US !!! :wave:


............ two guns
 
that I do buddy . that b^#$ took everydime I had and left me with a empty tank of gas to get to work. my brother filled up my truck tonight so that way I could get to work and the guy at the company I do the work for said they would help out with fuel and anything else I should need.it all started because I ran out of argon to finish the fenders and she told me I didn't need it and she wasn'r gonna give it to me. I had to leave work early today to make sure she wasn'r taking anything that was mine.she ain't been back sisne. she's staying at her moms wich is probably what she wanted anyway because she is nothing but a pill popper .I had to hide my meds from her because she would take them. well I guess I won't have to hide my stuff now and the kids will stop by more often .they hardly ever came by because she would start argumets with them..oh well gonna hit the sack with my possie and hope tomorrow brings a new day.might give you a call around lunch break if not you give me a call tomorrow afternoon man. to the member who wanted the bed rails I haven't forgot about you and i'll get them done as soon as I can and the fenders too.thnks guys .
 
I never like to hear of a marriage going bad but it sounds like it was best in this case.

Hang in there buddy. If there's anything you need, let us know.

I do have a small project for you if you're interested.
 
Peanut, I don't know whether to say congrats or my condolences ...so I said both. Good luck man. I hope it all works out for the best. Chances are she will come back you know. Be ready for that and decide how you want to handle that situation ahead of time.....or at least give it some thought. Good luck. :beer:
 
I feel for you, peanut. Don't worry one bit about those fenders. Sometimes we go through bad times so as to appreciate the good ones. There is a brighter day coming for you, pal.
 
Like others said, I hate to hear of a marriage break-up, but some times for the best. Still hurts, if not the break itself, then the events that led to it.
Best of luck to ya!!
 
I spent a lot of years at sea or running rivers Peanut. Some days it was calm and smooth
Other's got stormy and rough, and you wondered if you were ever going to make port. You hit a rough patch, but it will calm and the sun will shine again. Just believe!
KOBE
 
Peanut,
There is light at the end of the tunnel ....

Put your faith in God, and keep him in your Heart, he will walk you threw
this......


......... your friend,
>>>>>>> jamie
 
you know she had the freakin nerv to text me at work and ask how did I find the money to put diesel in my truck to get to work? that no good b^#%^. last night I got a call from my brother who told me to meet him at the truckstop and he filled up my truck and got me a few packs of smokes.then as I was sleeping the yard forman called and said that if I needed to I can fill my truck up with their big tank at work and that if there was anything I needed just ask and he would get it for me. the funniest thing is I don't miss her not one bit I have my possie 6 Chihuahuas a laB /RED NOSE PIT And a chocolate lab .and you guys and to me that's all I need last night the bed was full I had all of them sleeping with me.anyone know of a nice looking single lady who likes animals and nature walks and likes a man who loves to work just let me know.and no twoguns not my sister I do have standards you know.lmao
 
Like others said, I hate to hear of a marriage break-up, but some times for the best. Still hurts, if not the break itself, then the events that led to it.
Best of luck to ya!!

doesn't hurt one bit because she was so controlling that when she left I felt a load lift off my back like I didn't have to walk on egg shells to please her.
 
Peanut: I've got to tell you--CONGRATULATIONS! Ed Nix and Larry Kingston wrote the perfect song for you, and Roy Clark covered it:

I've made a small fortune and you squandered it all
You shamed me till I feel about one inch tall
But I thought I loved you and I hoped you would change
So I gritted my teeth and didn't complain

Now you come to me with a simple goodbye
You tell me you're leaving but you won't tell me why
We're here at the station and you're getting on
And all I can think of is ... thank God and Greyhound you're gone

Thank God and Greyhound you're gone
That load on my mind got lighter when you got on
That shiny old bus is a beautiful sight
With the black smoke a rolling up around the taillights
It may sound kind-a cruel but I've been silent too long
Thank God and Greyhound you're gone

Thank God and Greyhound you're gone
I didn't know how much longer I could go on
Watching you take the respect out of me
Watching you make a total wreck out of me
That big diesel motor is a playing my song
Thank God and Greyhound you're gone
Thank God and Greyhound you're gone
 
Peanut: One more note. I'm an old retired country lawyer. As a young attorney I handled probably a couple hundred divorce cases and all the follow-on cases--child custody and support payments, alimony, property division. Along the way, I discovered the "10 Commandments for Dealing with a Borderline Personality and/or a Crazy Person." I pass them along to you for such consideration as you may deem appropriate:

1. If you don’t have to deal with a crazy person, don’t.
2. You can’t outsmart crazy. You also can’t fix crazy. (You could out-crazy crazy, but that makes you crazy too.)
3. When you get in a contest of wills with a crazy person, you’ve already lost.
4. The crazy person doesn’t have as much to lose as you do.
5. Your desired outcome is to get away from the crazy person.
6. You have no idea what the crazy person’s desired outcome is.
7. The crazy person sees anything you have done as justification for what she’s about to do next.
8. Anything nice you do for the crazy person, she will use as ammunition later. Don't give away free ammo.
9. The crazy person sees any outcome as vindication.
10. When you start caring what the crazy person thinks, you’re joining her in her craziness.
 
Peanut: I've got to tell you--CONGRATULATIONS! Ed Nix and Larry Kingston wrote the perfect song for you, and Roy Clark covered it:

Thank God and Greyhound you're gone

I can promise you this !!! EVERYTIME I hear of a woman leaving a man.
I think of this song !!! If I'm not mistaken, First time I heard it was in the early 70's ......

........... jamie
 

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The "10 Commandments for Dealing with a Borderline Personality and/or a Crazy Person." >>>>
QUOTE]

THESE ARE WORDS OF WISDOM.....

>>>>>>> Let these statements sink in real good !!!!

Thanks much for posting this Heatwave !!!!

Something ALL should read >>>>>

.......... two guns :starbucks:
 
Sorry to hear it but like Bordercollie said change the locks. If you don't she may be setting at home waiting on you to get there and you may find she has moved back in and moved you out.
 
Aarkie and Border Collie are right ... change the locks asap. I invite you to re-review the Ten Commandments I posted last night, with particular attention to Commandments 2, 6, and 9. Of this you can be sure: you're not gonna outsmart her.
 
change the locks asap. IQUOTE]

Peanut,
Listen really good to some of these statements that are made.....

Reason is :
I HAVE BEEN THERE !!!

33 years ago ....

Wife went bad. Sent her down the road. Then she got to thinking everything that was at MY home was hers.
While I was gone for a couple of days, she emptied MY home.
All that was there, home, contents, EVERYTHING, was paid for before we ever made contact. Worked very hard for what I had. Even took boats, two trucks, car, wheelers, COFFEE POT and toilet paper, curtains, .......... EVERY DAMN THING brother ......
She moved ALL to another state, which that put a major block on me getting anything back...

There was so much lost and never recovered back then. Enough to make a buzzard deathly sick >>>>>>
Very long and serious story, but anyway.......

SO THE STATEMENT CAN BE MADE, CHANGE THE LOCKS, and put a restraining order on her. For without a order, she can get sheriff's office to bring her back to pick up some items. And that just opens the door for more monster stories .....
With that restraining order, she can't come even close without making trouble with the law on herself !!!!!


Don't like to posting and digging up bones of my life, expecially on the net, but I think you need to pay close attention to some of the friendly advise
for people state this to help you.

............ jamie
 
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Peanut: Heed carefully what Jamie is telling you. This is probably gonna be like a knife fight in a telephone booth ... you won't even see it coming, it will strike so fast and so deep. En garde.
 
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